Have Him at Hello: Confessions from 1,000 Guys About What Makes Them Fall in Love . . . Or Never Call Back
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- ISBN13: 9780307406545
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There’s a reason the media has dubbed matchmaker Rachel Greenwald as “The Wife Maker.” Yes, she’s reliable for over 750 marriages, but more importantly, she has solved perhaps the largest dating mystery of all time: when you finally meet Mr. Right (or even Mr. Potential), what really compels him to call back (or not) after a date?
Armed with her Harvard MBA, Rachel embarked on a fascinating ten-year research project to decipher this puzzle. In Have Him at Hello, she applies her business savvy to the dating world by conducting in-depth “exit interviews” with 1,000 single men, asking why they called back one woman, but not another. By refusing to accept the post-date brush-off like “There wasn’t any chemistry…” or the excited, but equally vague evening run through, “We hit it off!” Rachel extracted unabashedly honest and raw details. It turns out there are clear, tangible, consistent reasons why marriage-minded men either fall for you or disappear. The surprising “Top 5 Date Makers” and “Top 10 Date Breakers” revealed in this book can really change your fate when Mr. Right finally comes along.
Rachel’s goal isn’t for you to pretend to be a name you’re not, but rather to keep the ball in your court. By using her innovative research and tips as a guide, more men will question to see you again ; then you can do the selecting, rather than wondering if they’ll call. Because information is power, this book will make your first hello a lasting one.
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First I thought not again, another women writing about men, its obvious that 99% of advice out there in books written by woman as well as columns in magazines are doing more harm than excellent.
She interviews men and so do others, most men lie and lie lacking even knowing it, they don’t answer dating questions honestly especially to women and if shes hot forget it they don’t know what they are adage.
So basing your life based on what men tell women = disaster, you have to watch their actions not listen to their words.
In addition most book writers are too busy building sure not to hurt a name’s feeling and building sure to be politically right and in turn it’s a bunch of nonsense advice.
This leader has the “I don’t care” attitude and “ill say it like it is”, granted this can be hurtful to many but in the long run she will turn out to be your best friend (unless you obviously reflect that your dating situation is so unique that nobody can give you advice).
There is a issue magazines and books never touch on, it’s a very touchy issue that only men share between themselves.
In the past 15 years ive worked with 1000’s of men and women, and when you hear something over and over you start noticing a pattern.
Most women if a guy sleeps with them once and never calls them the assumption is that all he wanted was a one night stand, ladies this is fake, no such thing, if you did not surprise him with anything when you got naked he will call you back again and again.
The issue is most women don’t know hygiene, it’s a larger relationship killer than most reflect, men talk about this issue between themselves but its too grave to talk to women, if you tell it to a girl she usually answers with “I shower 3 times a day” or “you or your friends must be dating skanks”.
The shower was not proposed for women, learn to take baths (unless you can stand on your hands when taking a shower or you have a excellent powerful hose). This is a serious issue that no one wants to touch on, summers eve is not a shower replacement.
We can look away on certain body imperfections and turning off the lights ladies can help but god still allows us to smell things when its dark.
I know why things like this are not mentioned in books and magazines but this is the most common TRUE reason why after sex men do not call back, the next one is simply you where a lie, he expected larger breasts or firmer butt etc but the last thing on the list is “all he wanted was a one night stand”.
This is a must read book for persons who are ready to really know what it takes to find something real, its up to date with current advice not outdated things that are not valid anymore.
Reader’s Rating: 5 / 5
One would have expected a counselor with the reputation of Rachel Greenwald to at least come up with an original title ! I can’t tell if she was trying to tie her ship to the fame and star power of relationship consultant Jess McCann or if it was an attempt to cling to Tom Cruise’s falling star. Either way – the title is as unoriginal as the contents ! We expected much more of you Ms. Greenwald. But at least you didn’t have to spend too much time on this one – it appears that you just recycled an ancient book and stuck a new title on it … pretty sad. Might as well wait until it is in the bargain bin – who knows – it may have yet another title by then.
Reader’s Rating: 1 / 5
I was looking forwards to reading this book but it was poorly written and nothing substantial. Half way through it became repetitive and trite. Don’t expect to learn anything from this shallow opinion. Can I get my money back.
Reader’s Rating: 1 / 5
It’s 2009. A book that advises women not to wear jeans to the first date (be feminine and wear a lovely dress or skirt) is a book that is out of touch with reality, and reasonably sexist. The leader basically collected every stereotype random men have about women and uses them to offer advice. Tellingly, one of the first things she writes is that her book is targetting women BECAUSE MEN DON’T GO SHOPPING FOR DATING ADVICE BOOKS. This is the most conscientious sentence in the book and the reason I gave it one star.
Most of her advice is either an exagerration of what her supposed subjects said, (eg. “she said she never wanted to place New York” suddenly means “women are too independent”), or it directly contradicts her anecdotes at the end of the book about why men do call back. For example, one man says he pursued his partner because she place him in his place, so to speak. Doesn’t this directly contradict her admonishments of women who are too argumentative?
Not to mention some of the advice is insulting to women’s intelligence. For opinionated, knowledgeable women out there, Greenwald advises us to downplay our conviction by using such terms as “I reflect…” before adage what we judge. Wow. I’m sure that’s how Michelle Obama got Barack. By being all innocent and cautious: “I reflect racism is terrible. Don’t you agree?”
Also Greenwald and her subjects seem to have an archaic view of what is attractive in women…one that just doesn’t vibe with people who are in their 20s and 30s. There’s a reason Angelina Jolie is consistently rated hotter than Jennifer Aniston. And a young woman will look attractive AND feminine in fitted jeans and cute accessories in the 21st century.
There was a point where I knew I couldn’t in excellent faith take anything Greenwald says seriously. And it was when she referred to having diabetes as ‘baggage’ that shouldn’t be revealed in the first date! In fact she justifies her superficiality by claiming that if I, the reader, had the choice between two fantastic-looking men, one being diabetic, I would choose the guy who isn’t diabetic. Incorrect, incorrect, incorrect! I would choose the diabetic man because it tells me that he is familiar with suffering, a name who knows that life is unfair and people get handed raw deals all the time. Suffering builds empathy and character, and I would rather have a man who understands that from the get-go than a name who is yet to experience real pain in his life.
Don’t waste your time with this book. If you really want to know what men reflect, talk to the men in your own life that you respect. There’s no reason to judge that the 1,000 random dudes in this book are ones you would be compatible with in the first place. So why should you bother about what they have to say?
Reader’s Rating: 1 / 5
I really have this book under its original title: “Why He Didn’t Call You Back.” I was confused that it was unrestricted with a new title and “new content,” but I bought it anyway. Terrible thought. The only thing the leader seems to have changed was the title and the chapter titles, all of which she stole from another book (that I also have and REALLY like) called “You Lost Him at Hello.” So, to be clear, this book is about why the guy didn’t call back, not what you can do to get him. And it’s really written for older, or “mature ladies”. I don’t have any thought why the publisher and leader would relief the book — which was only 1 year ancient — under a new title, unless they are trying to trick people into buying it. Don’t fall for it. Go buy the original as a replacement for: “You Lost Him at Hello: A Saleswoman’s Secrets to Closing the Deal with Any Guy You Want.” Much more amusing, much better, and full of fantastic advice.
Reader’s Rating: 1 / 5